Ive been really stupid. On new years eve i got very drunk and kissed another man and my fiance nearly caught us. I feel sick to think about it now and wished it hadnt happened-especially since he was 40ish and a crap kisser. Why did i risk that and nearly lose my perfect fiance.
I guess i am a flirty person on the surface but i have some self esteem issues so i guess i kind of got off on the fact that i was desired by someone else. There is no chance of this being repeated as i didnt even find the man attractive. The kiss came from nowhere. He was a perfect gent having said that didnt try anything else-i know i wouldnt have gone that far though. I just feel sick about the other night and can stop relaying what happened. I really love my fiance and i just dont know what go in to me.

my girlfriend has this cousin and she thinks that her cuz is gonna try to make me cheat on her but i dont think that would happen i cause i love my girlfriend and sometimes i do think about what it would be like to be with her couzin but i also wonder what it would be like to be with another guy sometime i think about doing it with more than one i dont know what to do help me plz

I have been with my boyfriend/fiance for almost 9 years. We're expecting our first child and I absolutely LOVE him, BUT he SUCKS in bed and he doesn't cater to my needs at all. His penis is quite small and when he plays with me down below, he puts his thumb in my vagina (the SMALLEST FINGER ON A PERSON'S HAND). I try to tell him how I like it and he NEVER listens. I also think I might be bisexual because I'm always fantasizing about having sex with women. Perhaps I am just sexually frustrated and he really isn't doing it for me in the bedroom. I don't know what to do. The only time I can actually be satisfied with an orgasm or with any type of sex is when I masturbate and lately, I've been doing that a lot because my boyfriend SUCKS!!! It's so frustrating.....

I am very bad about choosing crushes. Every time that I like someone and ask them out, I always choose someone who doesn't like me, or does and then changes their mine or something, I'm very akward and not confident about myself however, worst thing thou, is that the first time I asked a girl out, I wrote down how I felt about her in the letter, and gave her the letter. She rejected me, which is fine I guess, but then she took my letter and posted it on the internet and she also read it aloud to everyone who was at a party she was having. Doesn't anyone else think that is totally wrong of her?

I have never had an orgasm with my husband. I have faked EVERY one of them. I have had MANY orgasms with other people, only by oral sex. I want to have an orgasm with my husband. I want to have an orgasm that doesn't have to be oral sex.

Any suggestions?

I'm having an affair with a married friend. We've known eachother 16 yrs., since college. We've been together for 6 mo's. I don't want his marriage to break up, or to hurt his kids. I don't want to end it, but I know I need to. I'm looking for a way out.